To Love Is To Live...Is Love Dead? Because if so, so are we.

Love...its been talked about for ages. But can anyone truly form a universal definition for it? I know I can't. Sometimes love can be perfect, abusive, one-sided, withstand the test of time and sometimes love even fades. What happened to Love being normal? Nowadays sex comes first and love happens eventually. (Totally backwards) And there is also this notion that sex can be executed with *NO STRINGS ATTACHED* or *WITHOUT CATCHING FEELINGS*. Another result of the over availability of casual sex (we can blame that on the ladies who don't make men wait [refer to my blog on making em wait].) Really, I don't feel like I could have sex with someone and not feel some sort of way about them emotionally. Can't speak for the sluts though lol. But really whats wrong with Love? Love is supposed to be a wonderful thing shared by two people and its supposed to make life more enjoyable and worth living. Is the concept of true love dead? Did infidelity and casual sex kill it?

All I know is as a Libra, I'm a hopeless romantic and love makes me feel full of life. And I refuse to apologize for my feelings. If I love you...I love you...and nothing can change that. I will tell you how I feel every chance I get, because life is too short. I don't care if its too early, or even if feelings weren't supposed to have been caught. I refuse to apologize for Love. Its the air in my lungs, its the blood in my veins, its a part of me. I love like I've never been hurt and give my all. :)

Time To Show Love To My Black Brothers

I just had to take a moment to show my admiration for my beautiful black brothers. There is too much negative said about them, and I am here to even the playing field. I love black men! There is nothing like a black man, point blank. A man who shares my struggles and knows where I am coming from. Black Love is a beautiful thing, and there really is nothing like it as well. A black man is a king, and only he knows how to treat a black queen. We compliment each other and make each other better. Nothing like a strong black man who can provide and protect. I dunno about yall ladies, but I am going out there and Im gonna find my black King... :)

Ladies...Yall Gotta Learn To Make Em Wait!!!

I know we've all met the type. Smooth talking, charming, and attractive. Sort of too good to be true. Only one way to find out if he really is too good to be true, make him wait. You know what I'm talking about...in the words of Steve Harvey, "If his job makes him wait 3 months for the benefits, you should too." I'm not saying that you gotta make the man wait for years, but don't sleep with him the first night and expect him to be romantic and charming and all that crap still. Its rare that a man will wife a chick like that, primarily because the chase is over and so is the thrill. Better that as women we captivate a man's mental before proceeding to the physical. Ya feel me? Also, the less women jump into bed with a man all early, the less pressure on the next chick to give it up. Men have become spoiled out here these days, expecting sex and have even convinced themselves that "what you won't do, another girl will". Don't fall for that lame shit. If a man can't wait a measely 3 months to get to know you before he gets in your pants, he was only in it for one thing and is better off gone ANYWAY!! Plenty of fish in the sea, don't sell yourself short to please some man when he doesn't give a rat's tail about you. Trust, once you give that type of dude what he wants the sweet texts, flowers, and even phone calls stop. GAME OVER. Ladies lets save ourselves the disappointment and rope em in with our minds and not our bodies!

Rihanna Takes Chris Brown Back

I am honestly floored at this news. The man beats her to a pulp, and covers her with bite marks and she wants to reconcile, because they both "care for each other." WTF?? How hard am I shaking my head? Hard enough to get whiplash! Everyone wants to say its not our business and let them do what they want, plenty of women get abused all over the U.S. everyday and stay. NO!! I refuse. They are celebrities, therefore they left privacy behind when they signed that contract. My concern is for the children and teens who look up to them. My sister is 9 years old, if she sees someone she idolizes get battered by her man and stay, what kind of message has Rihanna sent? If your man beats you, its OK to take him back, because he's sorry and he loves you?! First of all, it might have worked when your parents said, "we only hit you because we love you", but it is not acceptable in a relationship. If someone hits you, and you stay...you've given them the green light to do it again, and again. They may even kill you. I think Rihanna is STUPID AS SHIT! I have never in my life been so disappointed in a celebrity. Where is her strength, her independence? I bet you Beyonce wouldn't have stayed with Jay-Z were they in a similar situation. Even Mariah found the strength to leave Tommy Mottola in the 90s. These stories inspire while Rihanna's disappoints. She cannot possibly have that low of a self-esteem. Goodness, THERE ARE PLENTY OF FISH IN THE SEA RIHANNA!! Why would you limit yourself to someone who treats you bad? That goes out to all of the women in a similar situation too. Even if the rumors of her pregnancy are true, her child is better off not knowing Chris Brown.